How Do I Get My Ex Back?

You've probably had your friends and family supply you with endless advice on how to get your ex back. Some of it was funny, some of it was dangerous, and some of it was just ridiculous.

But now you're confused and the answer to the question, "How do I get my ex back?" seems hopeless.

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Below are some tips or suggestions that can guide you through different methods to try to win your ex's heart back. This is not the time to mope, but to gather your confidence and get things started.

Sometimes all it takes is a simple apology. Be honest and straight-forward about it, and explain yourself in a way your ex will understand. Remember, women and men are programmed differently, so how they perceive something may not be how you intended. Make sure they have a complete understanding of your feelings and intentions, as well as understanding theirs.

If your ex refuses to see or speak to you, then leave them be and give them some time to process what has happened. You'll get nowhere if you pester them when they are angry-you'll only stir the beehive, making the sting far worse than it has to be.

You know them best, so when they normally recover form an upsetting situation, try your approach again. This time, you're going to listen as well as talk. If you're the kind of person that has a hard time speaking their feelings, then write them down before you meet.

Your ex already knows this about you, so when you pull out a piece of paper to read from it explaining your feelings, they'll know you have done some considerable thinking pertaining to your relationship. If you can't do it because you'll feel like a fool, here's a tip you should take to heart: You already are a fool for letting them get away then frantically finding a way to make it up to them. Love sometimes means you play the fool, and this time it's your turn.

If you have a great repor with your ex's best friend, then you may want to give them a heads-up on your intentions. They are the closest person to your ex and have invaluable information. They can tell you if you have a shot, or advise you to give them a few more days until they come around.

They can also suggest ways to make it up to your ex, and may even be able to mediate. Don't go to the best friend if they hate you. They won't help you, and they will only make the situation more difficult. If they're happy about your breakup, then you don't want to go to them. Be smart about it, and use your head.

Breaking up is difficult, and fortunately for you, there are going to be times when the exchanging of personal items will take place. If you're smart, you will use this opportunity to show your remorse and express your feelings. If this is the person you just cannot live without, then make them believe it. Show initiative, be positive and imaginative, and see where it takes you.

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